Hope for Knuckleheads

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Do you think you are a knucklehead? Maybe others think that about you. Either way, I have good news — there is hope for you.

A little History...

In my late teens and early 20s, my “knuckleheadedness” was in full motion. I was irresponsible, short-sighted and somewhat arrogant. Each weekend meant consuming too much alcohol, spending too much money and usually doing something stupid.

Each week, I would have to deal with the fallout of the previous weekend. Sometimes it was as “simple” as a hangover headache. Other times it was property damage or relationship destruction.

As a member of the military during that time, my superiors did not take kindly to my antics. In fact, I garnered the nickname “Airman Screwup.”

Things came to a head when I bounced several checks at local merchants and my First Sergeant sent me to Correctional Custody (Minimum Security Jail) for the weekend. I had to break the news to my fiancee, who was more than a little upset with me.

While I was “semi-incarcerated,” a light switch turned on inside my brain. I knew if I continued down this path, it will lead to my destruction — and I would lose the most important person in my life.

I would like to say that from that point on I didn't do anything stupid. Wouldn't we all like to say that? I did, however, do fewer stupid things, and started on a path toward maturity.

During the process, “Airman Screwup” became the go-to guy in his career field, separating from the Air Force two years later with the Air Force Achievement Medal and more importantly, an Honorable Discharge.

I also married that girl who helped straighten out this “Knucklehead” and we have been together for more than 22 years.

Now for the hope you have...

People who did not know me in my “Knucklehead” days would have a hard time believing I was ever “that guy.” People tend to see you where you are today, not how you got here.

Dave Ramsey talks about doing “stupid with zeroes on the end.” Yet, today he is one of the world's top authorities on money and leadership.

Turn on the light switch. Start on the path to maturity. Don't quit. As long as you are breathing, you have hope.

For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.  — Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV)

Question:

What “Knuckle-headed” things have you done in the past that you have overcome?

All Things to All People

Minden Press-Herald site - Circa 1998

I had an editor that worked for me who was as “old school” as they came. He believed in such things as the “inverted pyramid,” concise leads, and newspapers are to be printed on paper, not posted online.

At the time — the mid 1990's — he had a lot of company in his assessments, especially when it came to the online newspaper.

We went round and round about it. However, he agreed to post the day's stories on the newspaper's website — after 3 p.m. Being the boss does have its advantages.

I put a visitor counter on the page to see how many people would even care about the stories online.

Then, a funny thing happened. My editor started watching the counter each day.

He would run the numbers and see how many people viewed the website overnight. “150 last night,” he would say.

The numbers began to climb. “200 last night.”

Our site got picked up by a couple of search engines and that increased traffic. “500 last night.”

The anti-online guy started asking if we could put some breaking news items (i.e. traffic accident photos, weather alerts, etc.) online when they happened.

Of course I was all for that. It was a little more difficult to pull off in those days, as we still had to develop film and scan photographs to put them online.

As things warranted, my editor put them online — and watched the web traffic increase.

Fast forward 10 years...

I was on vacation with my family in the mountains of North Carolina. We were visiting my in-laws at a RV park near Asheville.

I woke up early one morning and ventured outside with my cup of coffee just in time to see the Citizen-Times carrier making his rounds. He must have thrown 90 percent of the RVs in that park.

As he passed, doors opened, followed by housecoats and slippers emerging from each RV. These people were anxiously awaiting their morning newspaper.

I was reminded of that “old school” editor who was so enamoured by the website traffic. His excitement turned a lot of his focus away from his “first love,” the printed newspaper.

What I witnessed that morning showed me that in our effort to stay relevant and embrace new technology opportunities, we should not forget who “brought us to the dance.”

The newspaper industry has to be all things to all people. To the baby-boomer and post-baby boomer, we need to be that consistent presence in print.

And to the up and coming generation, we need to be where they are — be it a website, mobile or social network.

We live in a time of constant change and changing opportunities. The leader who can properly balance the old and the new will thrive throughout all these changes.

Whatever happened to the "old school" editor?

After he left our newspaper, he edited his hometown newspaper for many years. He left that job and now publishes an online only news site in that same town.

Funny how things (and people) can change.

Question:
What are some ways your industry has changed? How did you adapt?